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		<title>Comment on How to make the reader see a character is beautiful? by S.K.</title>
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		<dc:creator>S.K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 01:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not a fan of the other suggestions. Sorry.

And before anybody says it, do *not* have her look in a mirror, describing what she sees to the reader. Cliche.

What I strongly prefer is a brief description (&quot;tall enough to justify her taste for expensive clothing usually seen on runways in Paris or Milan&quot; or &quot;darkly voluptuous and earthy as the olives from her native Greece.&quot; No more than that. No description of her hair, face shape, eyes, mouth, figure, grooming, or clothing choices.

Instead, use the reactions of other characters, large and small. When she enters a busy office or restaurant, is there a moment of pause while everybody looks at her, then conversations resume? Does she get offers of service in stores other women don&#039;t? Are the girls she works with jealous, or do they ask for beauty tips? Do people give her a seat on the bus or subway in order to get a chance to talk to her, or just to see her smile? Does she use her looks to take unfair advantage?

In other words, don&#039;t tell me she&#039;s beautiful. Show me.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not a fan of the other suggestions. Sorry.</p>
<p>And before anybody says it, do *not* have her look in a mirror, describing what she sees to the reader. Cliche.</p>
<p>What I strongly prefer is a brief description (&quot;tall enough to justify her taste for expensive clothing usually seen on runways in Paris or Milan&quot; or &quot;darkly voluptuous and earthy as the olives from her native Greece.&quot; No more than that. No description of her hair, face shape, eyes, mouth, figure, grooming, or clothing choices.</p>
<p>Instead, use the reactions of other characters, large and small. When she enters a busy office or restaurant, is there a moment of pause while everybody looks at her, then conversations resume? Does she get offers of service in stores other women don&#8217;t? Are the girls she works with jealous, or do they ask for beauty tips? Do people give her a seat on the bus or subway in order to get a chance to talk to her, or just to see her smile? Does she use her looks to take unfair advantage?</p>
<p>In other words, don&#8217;t tell me she&#8217;s beautiful. Show me.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to make the reader see a character is beautiful? by Katrina Erikson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katrina Erikson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 00:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Describe what is beautiful about her - her hair, her eyes, her skin, her manner, her attitude?  Is it just that she is physically beautiful or is there also an inner beauty that shines through as well?  Don&#039;t pile the descriptions in one paragraph, but spread it out throughout the story.

Show that others find her beautify by they way they interact with her.  How do guys and girls talk to her or treat her?  Are guys falling all over themselves around her?  A women jealous of her?  Or does everyone like her and she makes people feel good about themselves?

Use more than adjectives to describe - try using other figures of speech like metaphors, similes, and analogies.  

Good luck.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Describe what is beautiful about her &#8211; her hair, her eyes, her skin, her manner, her attitude?  Is it just that she is physically beautiful or is there also an inner beauty that shines through as well?  Don&#8217;t pile the descriptions in one paragraph, but spread it out throughout the story.</p>
<p>Show that others find her beautify by they way they interact with her.  How do guys and girls talk to her or treat her?  Are guys falling all over themselves around her?  A women jealous of her?  Or does everyone like her and she makes people feel good about themselves?</p>
<p>Use more than adjectives to describe &#8211; try using other figures of speech like metaphors, similes, and analogies.  </p>
<p>Good luck.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to make the reader see a character is beautiful? by Wubbles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wubbles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 00:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Some words:
Gorgeous
Unique
Magnificent
Graceful
Pretty

Similes:
Like a supermodel
Like she walked on the red carpet
Like she was an actress
Like she was Miss America

Metaphors:
She was a replica of _____________ (insert person name)
She was a mini _______________________ (insert person name)
She was a flower (insert name of flower)
She was a princess.

You could compare her to nature:
The sun shone on her every move.
There was no rainy day when she was there.
The wind blew her hair.

Describe her actions:
She was graceful when she walked.
The way she talked was mesmerizing.
She put a spell on you when she spoke.

Describe her features (emphasize her best features) (compare her features to pretty things):
Her eyes were the color of a sapphire.
Her hair was as golden yellow as gold.
Her eyes sparkled like diamonds under the sun.

Describe her personality:
She was outgoing and free.
Her personality reminded me of __________________ (insert person name).

Good luck! Hope I helped! :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some words:<br />
Gorgeous<br />
Unique<br />
Magnificent<br />
Graceful<br />
Pretty</p>
<p>Similes:<br />
Like a supermodel<br />
Like she walked on the red carpet<br />
Like she was an actress<br />
Like she was Miss America</p>
<p>Metaphors:<br />
She was a replica of _____________ (insert person name)<br />
She was a mini _______________________ (insert person name)<br />
She was a flower (insert name of flower)<br />
She was a princess.</p>
<p>You could compare her to nature:<br />
The sun shone on her every move.<br />
There was no rainy day when she was there.<br />
The wind blew her hair.</p>
<p>Describe her actions:<br />
She was graceful when she walked.<br />
The way she talked was mesmerizing.<br />
She put a spell on you when she spoke.</p>
<p>Describe her features (emphasize her best features) (compare her features to pretty things):<br />
Her eyes were the color of a sapphire.<br />
Her hair was as golden yellow as gold.<br />
Her eyes sparkled like diamonds under the sun.</p>
<p>Describe her personality:<br />
She was outgoing and free.<br />
Her personality reminded me of __________________ (insert person name).</p>
<p>Good luck! Hope I helped! <img src='http://www.gutsywomen.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> <br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on Question on an article featured here on the Yahoo homepage? by Jennifer Rush</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jennifer Rush</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 00:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here is a link to the Yahoo Answers Blog.  All the archives are shown at the bottom.

http://yanswersblog.com/

If you can&#039;t find what you are looking for email Mike.  Good luck!&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here is a link to the Yahoo Answers Blog.  All the archives are shown at the bottom.</p>
<p><a href="http://yanswersblog.com/" rel="nofollow">http://yanswersblog.com/</a></p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t find what you are looking for email Mike.  Good luck!<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How long did i take you to conceive and what sex position did you use while trying? by jennifer f</title>
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		<dc:creator>jennifer f</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2013 00:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well i can say that on tha bottom works. but i do lots of positions so that i cant tell. but wat i do wait till my period go away have sex for a couple of days end stay in bed for the rest of the month. next thing you know pregnant. it has worked everytime i want a baby. my third baby will be born in june 12 2010.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well i can say that on tha bottom works. but i do lots of positions so that i cant tell. but wat i do wait till my period go away have sex for a couple of days end stay in bed for the rest of the month. next thing you know pregnant. it has worked everytime i want a baby. my third baby will be born in june 12 2010.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on What is love addiction and how do people deal with it? by Jam Jar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jam Jar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 23:53:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I understand completely. I was with my ex for 4 years and i chased after him and loved and cared for him and became completely addicted to him while he gave nothing back and watched me crash and burn with a grin on his face.

Im sorry to tell you but you two aren&#039;t going to work and you know this. A relationship consists of two people, but if only one person is doing the work to keep it going then a break up is inevitable. 

The sooner you walk away from this girl the sooner you will be over her and free to live your life. 
My ex dumped me after putting me through hell for 4 years. This is the first time I haven&#039;t gone crawling back to his abuse and it hurts like hell but you know what its not going to hurt for ever and soon im going to look back and think why did I waste so much time on you? That is 4 years of my life I will never get back.

When he broke up with me 5 months ago I had no friends, nothing, but 5 months later and I have more of a social circle than I ever had when I was with him.

You have to start thinking about YOU. You cant make someone want or love you. You have to accept that maybe this isn&#039;t the person for you. Some were out there IS the person for YOU. they will respect you. be there for you and not leave all the chasing up to you.

My biggest regret is not walking away from my ex the first time he hurt me. All the pain I would have saved my self. All the years I wouldn&#039;t have wasted crying and being miserable, I would have been some were else now off living my life doing something incredible but instead im trying to get over a broken hearth. A broken hearth which was always going to be inevitably broken by him.
Please don&#039;t make the same mistake I did run and don&#039;t look back.

Like getting over any addiction you keep yourself busy, you distract yourself, you surround yourself with loved ones so you don&#039;t feel so alone, you may even need to replace the addiction with something else but replace it with something healthy like exercise, walking, swimming, computer games, reading. You eat healthy to keep your body and your mind alert and well, you get enough sleep for the same reason but you don&#039;t over sleep and you get up everyday and go to sleep every night, write your feelings down and talk to people so you can sort everything out in your head, you don&#039;t see or contact your addiction this will only put you back to square one, and just like getting over any addiction you may need some outside help like counseling or medication and that&#039;s ok, you do what ever YOU need to do to move on with YOUR life.

You are make the choice to stay or leave and although our emotions can be terrible things sometimes you have to take the pain and get on with it.

when your going through hell keep going.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I understand completely. I was with my ex for 4 years and i chased after him and loved and cared for him and became completely addicted to him while he gave nothing back and watched me crash and burn with a grin on his face.</p>
<p>Im sorry to tell you but you two aren&#8217;t going to work and you know this. A relationship consists of two people, but if only one person is doing the work to keep it going then a break up is inevitable. </p>
<p>The sooner you walk away from this girl the sooner you will be over her and free to live your life.<br />
My ex dumped me after putting me through hell for 4 years. This is the first time I haven&#8217;t gone crawling back to his abuse and it hurts like hell but you know what its not going to hurt for ever and soon im going to look back and think why did I waste so much time on you? That is 4 years of my life I will never get back.</p>
<p>When he broke up with me 5 months ago I had no friends, nothing, but 5 months later and I have more of a social circle than I ever had when I was with him.</p>
<p>You have to start thinking about YOU. You cant make someone want or love you. You have to accept that maybe this isn&#8217;t the person for you. Some were out there IS the person for YOU. they will respect you. be there for you and not leave all the chasing up to you.</p>
<p>My biggest regret is not walking away from my ex the first time he hurt me. All the pain I would have saved my self. All the years I wouldn&#8217;t have wasted crying and being miserable, I would have been some were else now off living my life doing something incredible but instead im trying to get over a broken hearth. A broken hearth which was always going to be inevitably broken by him.<br />
Please don&#8217;t make the same mistake I did run and don&#8217;t look back.</p>
<p>Like getting over any addiction you keep yourself busy, you distract yourself, you surround yourself with loved ones so you don&#8217;t feel so alone, you may even need to replace the addiction with something else but replace it with something healthy like exercise, walking, swimming, computer games, reading. You eat healthy to keep your body and your mind alert and well, you get enough sleep for the same reason but you don&#8217;t over sleep and you get up everyday and go to sleep every night, write your feelings down and talk to people so you can sort everything out in your head, you don&#8217;t see or contact your addiction this will only put you back to square one, and just like getting over any addiction you may need some outside help like counseling or medication and that&#8217;s ok, you do what ever YOU need to do to move on with YOUR life.</p>
<p>You are make the choice to stay or leave and although our emotions can be terrible things sometimes you have to take the pain and get on with it.</p>
<p>when your going through hell keep going.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on How to make the reader see a character is beautiful? by xx Goldfish xx</title>
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		<dc:creator>xx Goldfish xx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 23:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alot of description of every single feature like her eyes were gleaming in the dark room or her smile was shinning! Etc...&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alot of description of every single feature like her eyes were gleaming in the dark room or her smile was shinning! Etc&#8230;<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on What is love addiction and how do people deal with it? by Mars Mission.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mars Mission.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 23:24:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that should be deleted leave out the (addiction) word.

And Love left as it is!

Best Wishes.

Mars Mission. 

14th Year Psychology Student.

4th Year Hypnotism Student.

4th Year Self Taught Music Student.

32 Years Qualified Automotive Technician&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that should be deleted leave out the (addiction) word.</p>
<p>And Love left as it is!</p>
<p>Best Wishes.</p>
<p>Mars Mission. </p>
<p>14th Year Psychology Student.</p>
<p>4th Year Hypnotism Student.</p>
<p>4th Year Self Taught Music Student.</p>
<p>32 Years Qualified Automotive Technician<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on What if I start abusing my child? by elijah's mommy [11/19/08]</title>
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		<dc:creator>elijah's mommy [11/19/08]</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 10:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>please dont follow in their foootsteps think when your child has children, do you want to see your grandchildren being abused?&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>please dont follow in their foootsteps think when your child has children, do you want to see your grandchildren being abused?<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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		<title>Comment on What if I start abusing my child? by Ista</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 10:07:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While it is true that some continue the cycle of abuse... it&#039;s also true that others recognize it as a cycle and are able to break it and be good parents.

If you really want to break the cycle, and be a great parent, my suggestion would be to read up on child development, as well as different parenting styles. By studying child development, you can better understand what a child is capable of at what age, and eliminate alot of the frustration of parenting. By studying different parenting techniques, you&#039;ll have better ways of communicating with your child than your parents had, and will be less likely to use their abusive methods.&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;References : &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While it is true that some continue the cycle of abuse&#8230; it&#8217;s also true that others recognize it as a cycle and are able to break it and be good parents.</p>
<p>If you really want to break the cycle, and be a great parent, my suggestion would be to read up on child development, as well as different parenting styles. By studying child development, you can better understand what a child is capable of at what age, and eliminate alot of the frustration of parenting. By studying different parenting techniques, you&#8217;ll have better ways of communicating with your child than your parents had, and will be less likely to use their abusive methods.<br /><b>References : </b></p>
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