Heres the whole situation help me out my dad is getting a divorce and i moved out about 2 years ago cause me and my step mom got in a horrible fight.Anyhow my dad found out that she is cheating with him with another man in the states.He is filing the divorce papers on terms of misunderstanding. She wants to leave her daughter with my dad another year till she graduates and leave to the states.But she wont sign the divorce papers cause she doesn’t want me moving back in there and she wants to sign herself under the place so she can always move back any tips for my dad what he can do with a woman like that?
I think right now in this country and abroad, marriage & having children is a scary proposition whether you live together or not.
Today, the divorce rate is so high due to no-fault divorce. If you have kids, for women – that means they hold all the cards. A man today has to realize that, love and "the dream" aside, the risks to men/fathers far outweigh the rewards. Check the source – some great books and other resources on just this issue.
Family court is tilted heavily in favor of women/mothers. Moms have all the rights, get all the benefits, and dad is too often relegated to a visitor in his children’s lives while being an ATM machine for mom. He can lose half (or more) of the cash, cars, house, investments, etc… and worse – the children.
Seriously, if I had known then what I know now about how the divorce machine sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, I would have never gotten married. I would have given up my dream of having a family.
With no-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you don’t need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don’t have to feel like being married anymore – and with that reality comes the truth – a marriage is no longer a contract, so what’s the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone "doesn’t feel like it anymore?" With women (who have children) initiating almost 3/4 of divorces today (most men don’t even see it coming), it’s the smart man who chooses not to get married and certainly not have children… and that’s a shame.
This affects men, women, and children alike. It affects everyone and people need to wake up to that reality. I know that there are lousy men and lousy fathers in this world – but make no mistake – the are plenty of lousy women and lousy mothers in this world and we should all be treated the same way (good or bad) and that simply isn’t happening today.